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Valentina De Santis

GROUP II · OWNER-CREATORS
Active · Do not make a grand hotel feel smaller. Make a small hotel feel as generous as a family home.
Primary roleOwner-Creator · CEO · owner · second-generation hotelier · curator of Italian family hospitality
Defining institutionsGrand Hotel Tremezzo · Passalacqua · Lake Como.
Family contextthe De Santis family has owned Grand Hotel Tremezzo since the 1970s; Valentina represents the next generation. In 2018 Paolo, Antonella and Valentina De Santis acquired Villa Passalacqua and transformed it into a 24-room hotel, opened in June 2022.
Defining achievementPassalacqua was named The World’s Best Hotel in the inaugural World’s 50 Best Hotels ranking in 2023; it ranked No.2 in 2024 and No.4 in 2025, when it also received The Best Hotel in Europe and Best Boutique Hotel awards.
Primary contributiontranslated inherited Lake Como hospitality into an intensely personal contemporary model in which historic architecture, Italian craftsmanship, domestic rituals, gardens, food, family ownership and unstuffy service combine to make a luxury hotel feel more like an extraordinary private home than an institution.
Register anchorsLHL-374 Tremezzo Group · LHL-H-362 Grand Hotel Tremezzo · LHL-H-361 Passalacqua

1 · Opening

Valentina De Santis inherited a grand hotel.

Then she created something much smaller.

Grand Hotel Tremezzo has scale, history and the public confidence of a Lake Como icon.

Passalacqua has 24 rooms.

The important move was not reduction.

It was concentration.

2 · Why she matters

Luxury hospitality often assumes that greater luxury requires greater infrastructure.

Passalacqua argues differently.

A smaller property can create more intensity: more individual rooms, more owner attention, more domestic ritual, more garden life, more freedom to surprise.

De Santis helped make intimacy itself globally competitive at the highest level.

3 · A hotel family

Grand Hotel Tremezzo’s own history presents the hotel as both an Italian story and a family story, with particular emphasis on generations of women shaping its style and warm, cultured welcome.

Valentina therefore did not enter hospitality as an outsider.

She entered a living family institution.

The challenge was to become an author without pretending to be the first author.

4 · Grand Hotel Tremezzo — Learn the large hotel

Grand Hotel Tremezzo provides the first half of De Santis’s education.

A major historic hotel requires departments, systems, maintenance, capital planning, restaurants, pools, gardens, service rituals and the ability to welcome many different kinds of guests.

Scale teaches discipline.

Passalacqua would later use that discipline to make smallness feel effortless.

5 · Lake Como is not a backdrop

For the De Santis family, Lake Como is not a destination selected by a brand expansion committee.

It is home territory.

Passalacqua’s own materials describe the family as rooted on the shores of Lake Como for generations.

That changes the relationship with place.

The hotel does not arrive at the lake.

The family already belongs to it.

6 · 2018 — Fall in love with a villa

In 2018 Paolo, Antonella and Valentina De Santis acquired Villa Passalacqua in Moltrasio.

The property already carried centuries of history: eighteenth-century architecture, aristocratic ownership, Vincenzo Bellini, terraced gardens and a long relationship with the town outside its gates.

The family described the project as a love story from the first encounter.

Owner-Creator hospitality often begins before the business case is complete.

7 · Restoration as courtship

A historic villa cannot be treated like an empty development site.

The building already has opinions.

Frescoes. Proportions. Staircases. Gardens. Tunnels. Views. Old stone.

The owner’s job is partly to listen.

Restoration becomes less like invention and more like courtship.

8 · 2022 — Passalacqua opens

Passalacqua opened as a hotel in June 2022.

Only 24 rooms and suites are spread across three buildings.

The small room count is not merely boutique positioning.

It allows every room to be treated as an individual composition and every guest to enter a social world that can still feel legible.

9 · Every room can be different

Passalacqua’s rooms combine historic Italian grandeur with highly individual design: Murano glass, marble, gilding, frescoes, antiques, textiles and objects selected with an almost residential abundance.

The goal is not standard room recognition.

It is discovery.

The guest should feel that someone chose this room rather than specified it.

10 · Italian craft as infrastructure

The restoration and interiors draw heavily on Italian artisans and materials.

Murano chandeliers were made specifically for the property. Bathrooms use multiple varieties of marble. Historic decorative language is combined with contemporary craftsmanship.

Craft is not simply decoration.

It is how the hotel locates itself culturally.

11 · The private-home test

The World’s 50 Best Hotels describes Passalacqua as almost like a private home.

That phrase matters.

A private home is not defined by the absence of service.

It is defined by the absence of institutional distance.

The challenge is to deliver professional precision without making the guest feel processed.

12 · Unstuffy Italian family hospitality

Passalacqua’s own language describes the De Santis approach as unstuffy, genuine Italian family hospitality.

Guests are invited into an extended-family feeling: welcomed, attended to, included in the action and spoiled with small treats.

The emotional model is generosity rather than ceremony.

13 · The kitchen is part of the hotel

Domestic hospitality is most credible when guests can feel the kitchen behind it.

At Passalacqua, food is not separated from the idea of home. Pasta, gelato, breakfast, garden produce and informal eating become part of the stay’s social rhythm.

The kitchen is not backstage.

It is part of the story.

14 · Daily life as experience

Passalacqua became known for experiences that are deliberately ordinary in Italian domestic terms and extraordinary in luxury-hotel terms: gelato making, cooking, garden rituals, bocce, collecting eggs, time by the pool, music, boats and long meals.

The important word is not activity.

It is life.

15 · The garden is the lobby

Seven acres of terraced gardens, fountains, olive trees, paths, lake views and outdoor rooms make the garden central to Passalacqua’s identity.

The property does not funnel every guest through a monumental indoor lobby.

Movement through landscape becomes arrival, circulation and social life.

The garden is hospitality infrastructure.

16 · Moltrasio — Keep the gate open

Passalacqua’s official materials emphasise its affectionate relationship with Moltrasio, unlike many great Como villas that stand more isolated from their communities.

This matters.

A private-home atmosphere can become a private fortress.

The stronger model remains connected to the town outside the gate.

17 · 2023 — The world’s best hotel

In September 2023, only about fifteen months after opening, Passalacqua was named No.1 in the inaugural World’s 50 Best Hotels ranking.

The award transformed a highly personal family project into a global hospitality reference point.

The remarkable part was not simply the ranking.

A 24-room family-owned hotel had beaten far larger international institutions on a global stage.

18 · The award changes the problem

Success creates a new risk.

Before No.1, Passalacqua had to become known.

After No.1, it had to survive being known.

Global attention can overwhelm intimacy. Guests arrive with expectations created by awards, photographs and social media.

The hotel must remain a home while the world treats it as a monument.

19 · 2024 and 2025 — Prove it was not a moment

Passalacqua ranked No.2 in The World’s 50 Best Hotels 2024 and No.4 in 2025.

In 2025 it also received The Best Hotel in Europe and Best Boutique Hotel awards; the boutique award had also been attached to the property in 2024.

Repeated recognition matters because it tests whether the original emotional impact can survive operational reality.

20 · Grand hotel and private villa

The De Santis portfolio now contains a useful duality.

Grand Hotel Tremezzo is the grand-hotel tradition: iconic, public, layered, energetic.

Passalacqua is the villa tradition: intimate, residential, garden-led, almost private.

One family operates both.

This creates a rare laboratory for two different scales of luxury.

21 · Not a miniature Tremezzo

The easiest mistake would have been to make Passalacqua a smaller Grand Hotel Tremezzo.

Instead, the properties have different emotional architectures.

Tremezzo celebrates grand-hotel life.

Passalacqua celebrates house life.

Brand coherence comes from family hospitality, Lake Como, colour, generosity and Italian sensibility — not identical design.

22 · Owner presence

The 2023 World’s 50 Best Hotels profile described Valentina as the family’s daughter who conceived and curated every aspect of the villa’s transformation.

This level of personal authorship is central to the Owner-Creator category.

The owner is not only capital behind the project.

The owner is an editing intelligence inside the guest experience.

23 · Family credit

Valentina herself gave public credit to her parents when Passalacqua won The World’s Best Hotel, describing the project as a dream shared with them.

This attribution should remain explicit.

Passalacqua is not a solitary-founder story.

Paolo, Antonella and Valentina De Santis acquired and revived the property together, supported by a team whose contribution Valentina repeatedly foregrounds.

24 · Staff as extended family

When Passalacqua won in 2023, both De Santis and general manager Silvio Vettorello emphasised the people who work at the hotel.

The language of family therefore extends beyond ownership.

This can be sentimental if it is only rhetoric.

Its operational value is continuity, recognition, pride and the feeling that service comes from people who are emotionally invested in the house.

25 · What she changed

She carried a multi-generational Lake Como hotel tradition into a new, highly personal Owner-Creator project.

She helped transform an eighteenth-century villa into a 24-room luxury hotel without making it feel like a conventional hotel conversion.

She made Italian craftsmanship, gardens, domestic ritual, individual rooms and family-style service central to the luxury proposition.

She demonstrated that small scale can compete with the world’s most famous grand hotels when intimacy is treated as an operating advantage rather than a limitation.

She helped create a two-property Lake Como hospitality language in which Grand Hotel Tremezzo and Passalacqua remain emotionally distinct.

She made owner presence and family generosity visible without turning the property into a personality cult.

She did not make a grand hotel feel smaller.

She made a small hotel feel as generous as a family home.

26 · What this model does not solve

Intimacy is difficult to scale. A 24-room property can deliver forms of recognition that become harder at larger room counts.

Family hospitality can become mythology if ownership warmth is not matched by professional systems and fair employment practices.

Historic restoration is expensive and selective. Every act of preservation is also an act of editing.

Highly individual rooms complicate maintenance, replacement and renovation.

Awards create pressure. A hotel celebrated as the world’s best risks becoming a destination for checking a box rather than living slowly.

Private-home language can obscure the fact that this is still a commercial luxury institution.

Owner centrality creates succession risk. The stronger the house reflects one family’s eye, the harder future stewardship becomes.

Lake Como itself faces pressure from global luxury demand, property values and overtourism.

The De Santis model does not solve the tension between intimacy and fame.

Passalacqua makes that tension visible.

27 · Valentina De Santis and Marie-Louise Sciò

Both are second-generation Italian women who inherited celebrated hospitality worlds and became contemporary authors rather than passive custodians.

Sciò edits jet-set mythology and extends it through cultural curation and digital lifestyle.

De Santis moves from a grand-hotel inheritance into an even more intimate family-villa model.

Sciò protects memory from nostalgia.

De Santis turns memory back into domestic life.

28 · Valentina De Santis and Olga Polizzi

Both understand that a historic hotel should not be neutralised by brand standards.

Polizzi asks each hotel to belong to its address.

De Santis asks the house to retain the emotional generosity of a family residence.

Polizzi’s authorship often works through a wider collection and design direction.

De Santis’s defining contemporary project is concentrated into one intensely curated villa.

29 · Valentina De Santis and Beatrice Tollman

Both make family warmth a serious luxury operating principle.

Tollman uses recipes, remembered preferences, traditional interiors and staff continuity across a collection.

De Santis concentrates similar instincts into Lake Como houses where food, garden life, treats and personal inclusion create the emotional product.

Both show that professionalism does not require distance.

30 · LHL connections

31 · Timeline

32 · LHL story — Twenty-Four Rooms Beat the World

London.

The first World’s 50 Best Hotels list reaches No.2.

Rosewood Hong Kong.

Then No.1.

Passalacqua.

Twenty-four rooms on Lake Como.

A family-owned villa that had opened only the previous summer.

The lesson is not that small hotels are better than large ones.

It is that intimacy can become a competitive advantage when every room, garden path, meal and human interaction belongs to the same idea.

33 · A second story — The House Does Not Need a Lobby

A conventional luxury hotel needs an arrival sequence.

Door. Desk. Lobby. Check-in.

A great house can behave differently.

You arrive into gardens. Someone knows you are coming. A drink appears. The lake is visible. The formal transaction becomes almost invisible.

The operational system still exists.

The guest does not have to feel it.

That is the private-home test.

34 · Legacy

Valentina De Santis belongs in the Luxury Hospitality Library because she demonstrates that second-generation hospitality can become creation rather than maintenance.

Grand Hotel Tremezzo gave her an inherited institution, a family tradition and the discipline of a major luxury hotel.

Passalacqua gave her a smaller canvas on which every choice could become more personal.

The result is not simply another Lake Como hotel.

It is an argument about scale.

Luxury does not always become more powerful by adding facilities, rooms and spectacle.

Sometimes it becomes more powerful by making the distance between owner, staff, house and guest shorter.

Passalacqua’s global recognition made that argument visible to the industry.

The future test is whether fame can remain compatible with the intimacy that produced it.

Valentina De Santis did not make a grand hotel feel smaller. She made a small hotel feel as generous as a family home.

Sources

What the entry rests on. Each reference records the specific facts it supports, so a disputed line can be traced to the account it came from.

The houseGrand Hotel Tremezzo — the De Santis familyValentina De Santis is the fourth generation; the family took the house in 1975